In fact, we doesn't fall in love, but we rise in love. The word 'fall' itself isn't right. Only immature people fall, they stumble and fall down in love.
Somehow they were managing and standing. They cannot manage and they cannot stand-- they find a woman and they are gone, they find a man and they are gone.
They were ready to fall on the ground and to creep. They don't have backbone, the spine that they don't have that integrity to stand alone.
But we, have the integrity to be alone. And when I give love, I give you without any strings attached to it. I just simply give. I don't expect you to be thankful for it. No, not at all. I do not need your thanks. But me, myself thank YOU for accepting my love.
And when we both are in love, it is like one of those paradoxes of life happens, one of the beautiful phenomena. We are together and yet tremendously alone. We are together so much so that we are almost one.
But our oneness does not destroy our individuality. In fact, it enhances it. We become more individual. To be better for ourselves.
When we are in love, we help each other to become more free.
There is no politics involved, no diplomacy, no effort to dominate. How can you dominate the person you love? Think over it.
Domination is sort of anger, hatred, enmity.
You would love to see the person you love totally free, independent, you will give him more individuality.
Thats why, I call it paradoxes. The greatest paradoxes. We are together so much so that we are almost one. Our individualities are not affected. We are becoming more enhanced. The other has enriched them as far as their freedom is concerned.
And when love flows with freedom there is beauty.
So are we.